Mistress Resonance
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For DISCREET, GENUINE GENTS who enjoy the finer things in life ~ Dominatrix & Sexual Therapist * Edging * Exquisite Relaxing Massages * Kinky Massages * Denial * Tie N Tease * Fetish * Kink * Domination *& more...
| Gender | Female |
| Age | 49 |
| Orientation | Straight |
| Country | United Kingdom |
| Region | South East |
| Town | Fareham, Nr Southampton, Basingstoke, Chichester |
| Nationality | British |
| Postcode | SO31 |
Please see the questions and answers section at the foot of this page for details of the information to supply in your first contact so as not to waste both of our time and to at least give the appearance of being genuine. Courtesy goes a long way, which means you USE A NAME when you contact me, not a description or an initial, also DO NOT put through booking requests until we have found a mutually convenient time and date via email communication and then spoken to ensure we are BOTH happy to meet!
Outcalls and advance booking incalls available with a minimum of 24 hours' notice and a 50% deposit by bank transfer into a discreetly named business account. Sadly, due to the number of timewasters/unsavouries this is now a normal requirement which genuine gents have told me they are more than happy with are as they understand mine and their time is valuable and both of our safety is paramount.
Mistress Resonance bookings require a minimum of 24 hours' notice for Sensual-Strokes delights you can chance me being available on the day but please bear in mind my diary can fill quickly.
My usual availability is as follows:
(My dungeon has been reassembled and available for our sessions.)
Monday ~ not available
Tuesday ~ between 10am and 6pm
Wednesday ~ not available
Thursday ~ betweeen 10am and 9pm
Friday ~ between 10am and 9pm
Saturday ~ afternoon/evening if booked well in advance
Sunday ~ ad hoc but would need to be booked in advance
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Welcome Gentlemen. My profile is almost complete, just a few tweaks and bits to add along with logistical details. I trying to find a few hours spare to put pen to paper or should that be fingers to the keyboard. I have more delicious ideas up my sleeve and these will be added in due course including a sensory deprivation day etc.
My fees are set at a limited time introductory level to entice you to sample a session or two with me, take advantage of these while you can!
You will see that I no longer offer escort services as I have finally made and committed to my decision to follow my passion of assisting gentlemen who are looking for alternative pleasure in a relaxed, friendly and safe environment, albeit on a part-time basis. Place yourself in my capable hands to enjoy pleasures on a much deeper level.
I will need at least 24 hours notice. I try and make myself available on Tuesday, Thursday, Friday and occassional weekends. As the more sophisticated man appreciates, it is now necessary and normal practice for higher end providers in the adult industry to require a deposit. The deposit is 50% of the fee and must be paid by bank transfer, no exceptions.
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I’m Mistress Sabrina Resonance, you may refer to me as Ma’am. Accomplished Mature Professional Dominatrix with an eclectic taste in pleasures/torments. I have a skillset reaching far beyond the standard expectations and adore using my womanly wiles to reduce you to a quivering wreck eager to adhere to my every whim. You will watch me making my way across the room mesmerized by my shapely but slender body as I expertly select the means by which I will inflict your exquisite torment.
My Chambers, which include a vast array of quality equipment and classic dungeon furniture along with a relaxing boudoir area are discreetly located in a private residence to the east of Southampton near junction 9 of M27. I also have a salon therapy room perfect for the range of more relaxing indulgences I offer.
As much as I enjoy the power I have over your pleasure in my Emporium of Tease and Torment my busy schedule means I have limited opportunities to dip into the kinky world of fantasy. In my book, quality over quantity wins out every time. If you are organised and reliable and are able to book in advance, I’m sure we will find a mutually convenient opportunity to session together. I’m worth making that little extra effort for.
It's extremely flattering the distance many of you travel to see me. I pride myself on providing you with a distinctive and unique experience meaning the adventures I offer are worth your while travelling any distance to me. Many of you tell me that me that the journey itself plays with your mind, the anticipation of what you are about to experience at my hand playing over and over in your head, feeling the trepidation build with every mile you get closer to me, unsure of what you are about to succumb to…
Mistress Resonance
My background is in the corporate world and that coupled with a childhood surrounded by impeccably presented and powerful military men, leaves no surprise in the fact that I am drawn to a professional man who I can toy with as a serene lioness does her prey, breaking down the façade of control. I whisper to your soul, in its stripped-down vulnerable state, leading you on an exquisite journey that is both magical and terrifying as you fall into the abyss, I enticed you into.
I cater for all levels and reasons; my aim is to help you become a better version of yourself. Whether you have a deep-seated need for a particular fetish/activity, perhaps you yearn to give up control or maybe looking for a different type of non-intimate sexual titillation?
If you are a novice don’t worry, I have a natural charm putting you at ease with my intuitive, relaxed and friendly ways as I introduce you to my world. Whether that be the dark arts, cross dressing or even massage. If you are unsure as to what you may enjoy perhaps my incredible “Be My Toy” experience would be a good opener for you. It has been described as “being trapped in Narnia and not being able to find the door back into the wardrobe”.
For the more experienced of you, rest assured I’m equally comfortable sharing a worthwhile session with you, each session tailoured to your needs from mild to harsh sessions.
My true passion is for those who have a deep need for their particular fetish. Where it is a part of you, a yearning that won’t go away no matter how many attempts there are to dampen it. It’s extremely satisfying and an honour to be able to be a part of those sessions.
I can’t stress enough that communication is the crux to both of us getting the most from our time together. Be prepared to think about what you are requesting as I may just ask searching questions to fully understand what you want. If you use the cop-out phrase “push my boundaries”, especially if I’ve never even met you before, you must be able to let me know what your boundaries are now and how you feel they can be pushed and how far. It is imperative that you be honest with me, whether your reason is a long held fetish or merely sexual titillation by a powerful woman who you can never have, knowing your reason within the complex area of my world means I can direct the proceedings in a way to satisfy your craving rather than wasting both our valuable session time searching for the elusive trigger.
More about me:
Physically I’m tall and slender at 5’8” without shoes and UK clothes size 8/10 depending on the brand/style. I have a zest for life and passion for fitness pursuits including pilates, yoga and various dance genres resulting in a clear and focused mind and toned body. For my height I have a dainty shoe size of UK 6. Don’t misconstrue my size with weakness, I am a power to be reckoned with!
My life experience and age would put me in the mature bracket but most of you place my looks as much younger. I’m fortunate to be from a time where the values of courtesy, a strong work ethic and education were valued over arrogance, 2 minutes of fame and entitlement. Please consider this when making contact.
My imagination is sparked by the bygone days, might I add days before my lifetime, encapsulated in the sexy vintage style and adore fully fashioned stockings or standard nylons (see activities for nylon fetish details). Rest assured I also rock the stereotypical domme look including pvc, leather and even denim.
The words: confident, charming, caring feisty, calm, stern, opinionated, forthright and fiercely independent; have all been used to describe me. I, like all the fiercely independent and strong women I know, have been moulded from the adversities of life and as such have a compassionate and nurturing spirit which intriguingly sits perfectly alongside my cruel trait in my enjoyment of your submissive self.
Importantly, I have a wicked imagination and am not afraid to use it. Sessions with me are more than a mere act, our own dynamics on the day will dictate the energy of the session and direction it takes. I’ve been told that my you should watch my eyes, as I change from a warm welcome to a fiendish siren taking you to task.
Always safe and sane….
I am an accomplished Professional Dominatrix with years of experience to draw upon. I have a fully equipped Chambers at my discreet and private location.
Activities I enjoy:
Anal intrusion
Ball busting
Balloon fetish
Bondage
Boot fetish
Caning
CBT (Cock and ball torture)
CFNM (Clothed Female, Naked Male)
Chastity and/or key holding
Corporal punishment
Cross dressing
Discipline
Edging
Electroplay
Fetish
Flogging
Foot fetish
Humiliation (including SPH (small penis) and racial)
Impact play (paddles, canes)
JOI (jerk off instructions)
Leather gloves/boot worship
Medical play
bondage
Needles
Nipple torture
Nylon (authentic fully fashioned stockings (FFS) additional fee if session less than 2 hours)
Over the knee spanking (OTK)
Pain play
Pantyhose/tights worship
Pet play
PVC worship
Prostate massage
Roleplay (not taboo)
Sensory deprivation
Sensual domination/eroticism
Slave training
Sissification/Sissy Training
Spanking
Stiletto/shoe/strappy sandal worship
Strap-on (anal intrusion)
Tickle torture
Tie and Denial (tease)
Wax hot (candles and paraffin wax)
My Chambers:
My Chambers are well equipped and spotlessly clean in a discreet residential property that belies the delights that await you.
The following bespoke dungeon furniture awaits you:
- St Andrew’s Cross
- Kneeling Bench
- Horse Bench
- Pillory Stocks
I also have a relaxing boudoir area suited to teasing sessions and roleplays along with a separate relaxing salon therapy room.
I am pleased to entice you with the following unique “experiences" expertly delivered by a woman who revels in taking you on a journey that will stay in your psyche for a long time.
- Sensory deprivation day ~ more detail to follow, includes total sensory deprivation (bondage, visual, auditory). You will be taken out of the cupboard at my whim for a range of activities within the guidelines discussed prior to our session.
- Chastity outing (not in my local area but possibly Bournemouth, Basingstoke, Reading, London, Brighton) ~ more detail to follow.
This experience will include an outing where I will overtly wear your key on a chain. Once I am satisfied you are uncomfortable enough we will retreat to either my Chambers or other accommodation, dependent on our location, where you will be tormented further. Only if I am satisfied will I unlock your cage and allow you a release and pleasure.
- Be My Toy ~ I know how much you love it, so I have adapted it for you. Ideal for anyone wanting to dip their toe into my world in a gentle way or indeed for the more experienced gent who is looking for a fun, sensual domme session.
- Exquisite Day of tormenting pleasures ~ more detail to follow
- Pamper rooms ~ massage, nails, beauty treatments where you can relax as your girlie self ~ more detail to follow
2 HOURS “BE MY TOY” EXPERIENCE ~ MINIMUM 2 HOURS (*additional hours may be possible)
The ultimate and popular experience to safely embrace and thoroughly enjoy your sexually submissive side in my expert hands...
Wickedly unadulterated sensual play with a hint of kink if you can handle it...
Please be aware that this is not a girlfriend experience "GFE" as I don’t offer those and nor is it a domination experience. Think more along the lines of a sensual fest where you will be my submissive toy and as such you do not dictate the activities at all. If you wish to direct which activities or indeed my clothing this experience isn't for you. However, I may be able accommodate your requirements under the guise of a "normal" session, simply drop me a clear and concise email with what you are looking for, I don’t read any rambling “fantasy” emails..
Imagine the scene...
You naked, restrained and totally submissive to me where you are put in all manner of positions ranging from the comfort of my boudoir where the pleasures are only limited by our imaginations and let me assure you mine is rather wicked. I will have a range of equipment and devices with me to ensure the pleasures are plentiful. You will be pleasured and drained of every drop of your pleasure juice but then the realisation hits you… you are still being used and unable to stop me toying with you for my own wicked ends!
As my previous guests will testify, play times are full on and fast moving in the World “Be My Toy” but rest assured for those of you that book longer sessions you will be allowed a small amount of recovery time. Obviously, I will need entertaining in your “rest” time so I may torment your mind further or perhaps enjoy flirting with you while you are restrained and vulnerable, if I blindfold you be sure to listen carefully, have I left the room or am I still near but silent, was that me breathing or are you imagining things? Was that a rustle of clothing? Was that air movement me brushing by you? Did you feel that gentle touch? Or perhaps your senses have lost all sense of reality and you are alone…
Like what you read? Be brave and book for an experience that will have your mind whirring for days afterwards.
Those of you that know me know that this will be an incredible experience as I DO deliver what I promise.
Please be aware that this is a playtime where you will be fully submissive and obey my instructions eagerly and with grace, if you want to behave like a naughty boy attempting to boundary push by grabbing and groping or want to direct activities you haven’t understood this experience and it’s not suited to you.
Enjoyments that will be included (you can’t opt out of):
Being pleasured
Having fun
Sensual Teasing in a variety of methods
Bondage/Restraint Blindfold MasturbationEnjoyments included (subject to my desires on the day) which you may opt out of, if you need to opt out of lots of these this really isn't the experience for you. A typical misunderstanding is that the following are all about pain - so very wrong! Please advise of any opt outs at time of booking:
- Anal play (on you, provided you have been cleaned inside)
- Blindfold
- CBT (cock and ball torture but in a sensual way!)
- Electroplay (E-stim and/or Violet wand)
- Gag (on you)
- Lingam erotic massage with a quality oil
- Spanking (of you) hand and/or paddle
- Massage
- Nipple play (on you, never on me)
- Shoe fetish - worship/boot fetish/heel fetish/foot fetish
- Strap-on (provided you are internally cleaned out properly)
- I also have the metal rods for you know where!
- Various toys, see my equipment list, if you need to omit specific items please let me know
- Vibrating toys (on you)
If you are looking for something gentler but equally exhilarating in a more relaxed style this page is for you:
Please scroll down this page for details for my following delights:
- Sensual Strokes Massages with exquisite happy ending
- Touch Therapy
- Chair Tease
- Tie and Denial Tease
- Kinky Tie and Denial Tease
Sensual Strokes Massage
Expertly delivered relaxing massages with an exquisite sensually tormenting happy ending that will leave you sated and are offered under my side-line of Sensual-Strokes-Massage. If you can’t find the details with a quick online search, please message me for the link.
As I am a qualified (and insured) massage therapist you are assured of a quality massage delivered by my expert hands enabling you to relax in preparation for the most exquisite happy ending as only I can.
Touch Therapy ~ MINIMUM DURATION 1 HOUR
For the gentleman who enjoys sensual touch.
If you have a kinky leaning touch therapy may be included with bondage and/or cross dressing or indeed edging although the touch therapy element does take priority. Please, when booking, be realistic about the duration required to satisfy those additional activities.
The famous British stiff upper lip attitude results in a society where touch is disapproved off despite the human condition craving it. Touch therapy allows you to relax and enjoy my magical touch gently encouraging your nerve endings to ignite sending quivers through your being. I have a leaning towards sensual play and have developed techniques that will quiet your busy mind as the sensations take over your whole being. You will be tantalised with light touches that feel like butterfly wings fluttering against you with my other secret techniques that may just enable you to experience what can only be described as “skin orgasms”.
If you wish to include one of my exquisite happy endings let me know at the time of booking.
Chair Tease ~ 30 MINS, £100
Those of you that know me know that I’m anything but run of the mill so here is a luscious teasing experience with a difference for you.
You will submit to me for a delicious half hour of teasing while you are securely restrained to a chair and possibly blindfolded (the blindfold is optional if you enjoy visual over sensory deprivation). I will be dressed stylishly but beneath my outer layer of respectability you will catch a glimpse of my gorgeous lingerie and stockings. I will flaunt myself at you. You will feel me brush by you, I will drape myself across your body and slowly run my fingers across your body as I sit astride your lap leaning in close whispering in your ear.
You will desperately try to control yourself as I take your manhood in my hand and…
I’m good but not a miracle worker so if your stomach, when in an upright sitting position, prevents access to your manhood this isn’t for you.
Tie and Tease ~ 1 HOUR
I will show you into the bathroom to shower to ensure all areas smell soapy clean and then lead you naked into my comfortable gently lit comfortable boudoir. You may find yourself taking a sharp intake of breath as I produce leather cuffs and gently fasten them around your wrists. You will then be invited to lay on the bed as I proceed to secure you to the under bed restraints. You will feel vulnerable but more than a little excited as I then work my way to your ankles and also clip those to my bed.
Your heart is racing as I drape myself across you commencing with your tease, you feel the fabric of my attire brush against your skin and my gentle touches making you quiver with pleasure. Before I secure your blindfold (optional if you prefer visual) I will slip off my dress revealing my milky complexion encased in gorgeous lingerie. Take a good look as you will only be able to feel from now on.
Your body will arch and spasm as I tease you with my delicate touches. You will be aching to see with your desire becoming almost tangible. Your need for me will be heightened by the knowledge that you will be denied the ultimate prize of taking me. You will struggle to control yourself as your arousal takes over your being…
Kinky Tie and Tease ~ 1 HOUR
For the gentleman who wants something a little different I would love to introduce you to a kinky sensual tie and tease while you are restrained to any manner of my dungeon furniture such as the St Andrew’s Cross, stocks, over door restraints or perhaps with the leg spreader and cuffs or any combination of my choosing.
Some of you have had the pleasure of my alter ego Adele Smyth and are automatically members of Adele's Gentleman's Club. Membership is closed to new members, sorry but you've missed the boat, I did extensively advertise that this would be the case.
Existing members are those respecful gentlemen who I had a great time with and they already know where to find the relevant details. Great time means you were impeccable about your personal (including oral) hygiene, were good fun, didn't try to boundary push, weren't a time vampire, were reliable, ie didn't have a habit of cancelling and showed me the utmost respectful.
From 31st October 2024 membership will be restricted further to those gentlemen who I've seen more recently. There is little point in having dormant members, who I may not even recognise on my phone.
My phone number will also change and won't be advertised to reduce the admin of fielding enquiries from non members. I will let you have the new number when I see you. DO NOT contact me asking for the number as that will obviously defeat the object of reducing my admin!
I'm sorry but due to the number of unsavory chancers trying to blag bookings you will need to use the same mobile number you previously used to book or give me a note of that number in your first contact. Unknown messages without that detail won't be responded to.
Enjoys
- Toys
- Uniforms
- Fetish
- Massage
- BDSM (giving)
- Spanking (giving)
- Domination (giving)
- Humiliation (giving)
- Strap On
- Prostate Massage
- Foot Worship
- Role Play & Fantasy
- Tie & Tease
- Cross Dressing
- Dinner Dates
- Enema
- Hand Relief
I meet with
- Male
Incall rates
| Duration | Cost |
| 1 Hour | £160 |
| 2 Hours | £300 |
| 3 Hours | £400 |
| 1½ Hours | £250 |
Outcall rates
| Duration | Cost |
FAQs
Q : Discretion!
A : Gentlemen, discretion is assured and expected. If you don't understand you are also required to be discreet please do not contact me. A few pointers: using handsfree or indeed repeating my arrival directions while on the phone for all my neighbours to hear is not discreet. Shouting "Bye Mistress/Ma'am" etc as you head out is not discreet and neither is giving my details to your wife! I hope that's cleared that up for you.
Q : How do I make a booking?
A : Gents I know it's pretty rubbish of me but I've not mastered the skill of crystal ball gazing so you will need to ensure you provide me with the following: - Your name - Confirmation that you are in the age group I meet - The date you wish to meet - The time you wish to meet - The length of time you wish to book (please ensure you book adequate time to ensure you obtain the experience that will leave you contented and sated) - The short sentence detailing the name of the experience you wish to enjoy with me. I will ask you further relevant details once we have ensured the logistics are possible.
Q : How long?
A : Gents please be realistic about the length of time you would like to spend with me. If you need an hour of stimulation to get to the point of enjoyable satisfiction there is no point in booking half and hour and trying to guilt a lady into giving you free time. You are only setting yourself up for a disappointing and very uncomfortable experience for both of us. You will either be shown the door after half an hour unsated and unhappy or as happens in some cases you manage to intimidate the lady into providing you with the extra time and services only because she is worried about her safety. There is a name for what that but it is a banned term on this site! Similarly, if you enjoy an hour's chat as an aperitif to the main event of an hour's session you need to be respectful of a lady's time and book the appropriate 2 hours otherwise you will find yourself leaving frustrated and disgruntled.
Q : Feeling ill but still want to book?
A : NO! No matter how generous you are feeling I don't want you to share your illness with me. Please wait until you are 100% to fully enjoy your time with me.
Q : I will pay extra for sexual services...
A : NO!!!! My profile very clearly states what services I will consider and don't. Obviously this is all at discretion and depends on your behaviour, health and hygiene. Don't be that unsavoury boundary pusher. It's worth noting, I like most ladies, do support and partake in the adult industry worker's alert systems which shares info with the police!
Q : Why are you so obsessed about hygiene?
A : Lots of people's personal and oral hygiene has slipped to totally unacceptable levels. If you have gunk on your teeth/tongue, smell of your last meal or have an unpleasant body odour anywhere, please don't expect any modicum of service, I will be in the bathroom vomiting! If you don't respect yourself or the ladies you visit enough to shower properly on arrival you really aren't welcome here. [Hint] Personal grooming is also appreciated ;) Gents to get the most of our time together you need to ensure you are spotlessly clean EVERYWHERE! I won't be going anywhere near smelly breath, hair/beards, armpits, belly buttons; cocks and balls stinking of urine or stale spunk or indeed aromatic arses and cheesy feet or unkempt dinosaur feet etc etc Seriously guys going into the bathroom and pretending to shower, no truly it happens, is beyond stupid, the unpleasant fumes emanating from you give your ploy away! Perhaps you need to remember females have a more acute sense of smell than males. While I'm on the subject a shake of your penis after urinating is NOT enough. Soap and water to thoroughly wash your penis, balls and yes hands too! Seriously, if you think having had a shower when you got up, last night or sometime within the last couple of weeks is adequate you seriously need to up the anti!
Q : Do you offer discounts?
A : My worth is non negotiable. I'm the treat that's worth saving up for.
Q : We get on really well, so why won’t you see me privately ie. without the booking fee?
A : Please put that silly notion out of your head. Our times together are fun as they are bookings. We enjoy the fantasy once we close the door on the outside world. We then both get on with our separate lives without any complications with hopefully exciting meets to look forward to. By asking the unsavoury question of meeting outside of a booking you are instantly ruining that fantasy and I will have no choice but to block you.
Q : I want free sexual titilation when I pretend to book you and/or see you but not pay the booking/dinner date fee...
A : Gents you get the time you get the time you paid for, no more and no less. Remember the old, but correct, adage of "familiarity breeds contempt" so let's keep it professional, fun and exciting. Just in case you don't understand the above ~ Do you go to a restaurant and request free meals because you liked their food and service so much the last time? No? So why try that on with me? I'm extremely good at my job and greatly enjoy entertaining respectful gents. Just as you do, I expect to be paid for my skill set when I work. It never fails to astound me the lengths some will go to attempting to blag free bookings so they can use their dosh to fit in another paid for booking with another lady! Respectful gents who understand the boundaries are always welcome.
Q : Chemical substances?
A : Noooooooo!!! Our bodies will produce their own enormous natural high by creating neurohormones oxytocin and vasopressin coupled with the surge of endorphines and adrenaline why would we want to interfere with that!
Q : Can I take photos?
A : No - if you would like to see photos of me please look at my private gallery. Please note it is not acceptable to download any of my photos.
Interview
Q : What is your Primary Language?
A : English
Q : What three words best describe your personality?
A : Sensual, confident, imaginative
Q : What are your favourite flowers?
A : I simply adore all flowers
Q : What is your favourite gift?
A : Flowers, perfume, scented candles
Q : What is your favourite holiday destination?
A : No idea as so many more to try ;)
Q : What is your ethnicity?
A : Caucasian (White)
Q : What is the colour of your eyes?
A : Blue
Q : What is the colour of your hair?
A : Blonde
Q : What length is your hair?
A : Medium
Q : How tall are you?
A : 5'8"
Q : What is your shoe size?
A : 6
Q : What is your dress size?
A : 10
Q : What size is your chest?
A : 32"
Q : What is your bra cup-size?
A : C
Q : How would you describe the size of your breasts?
A : Small
Q : Are your breasts natural or enhanced?
A : Natural
Q : How is your pubic hair fashioned?
A : Shaved Completely
Q : Do you smoke?
A : No
Q : Do you have any tattoos or piercings?
A : NA
Q : If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they
A : NA
Q : What times are you always available?
A : Please see profile
Q : Will you do overnight bookings?
A : No
Q : How long are you prepared to travel for?
A : NA
Q : What sort of men turn you on?
A : Intelligent gents with impeccable personal hygiene who are respectful but not smary, confident but not arrogant, open minded but not boundary pushers.
Q : What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had?
A : Where do I start...
Q : What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!)
A : Not sure that I'd say it's outrageous but maybe outdoor play over a car bonnet or even playing at a swingers club.
Q : Where would you most like to have sex?
A : Outdoors in the rain on a warm day
Q : What is your favourite sexual position?
A : Dynamics of each connection differ let's explore!
Q : The most sensitive part of my anatomy is?
A : I'm super sensitive all over especially my back.
Q : What sexual activity do you enjoy the most?
A : Our connection will determine what we enjoy ;)
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